Love is amazing when you're good and, soul-destroying when you're out of sync.

Soul Mates

Whatever you call them, soul mates, twin flames, or karmic connections, I believe before you were born, you chose these connections to be with, love and learn from. How these play out depends on your responses together, and for better or worse, these relationships do impact your life.

Relationships can be the sweetest most intoxicating or the most damaging and sometimes bewitching trials of your life. Sometimes these relationships affect you so profoundly, that it is hard to imagine that you could ever love again.  

They are what can take you to the heights of heaven or to the lows of hell and leave ever-lasting imprints on your soul. Every now and again they re-emerge to remind you of the pain experienced, and sometimes they can hold you hostage from truly loving again. 

You are here to live with passion, learning how to enjoy your relationships, friends, and family. These lessons and connections are not always easy to endure, however with more knowledge and understanding, you can live a more passionate life with each other.

Emotional Numerology

By Rosina Bond

Traits & Characteristics, that can change your life. Welcome to a taste of my favourite tool, numerology.

I write from an emotional perspective, why?  Because we are emotional. 

When you understand life from an emotional perspective, it empowers you to live a fuller life and makes understanding and getting what you want from life much easier. When you truly know who you are and what your best and worst characteristics are, then you can make better and more empowering decisions and have deeper loving relationships. When you are connected emotionally then life is more rewarding and more joyful.

I am a 6 day born and I know that family matters. When I am fully committed, those around me are more protected and loved, I am a strong and powerful woman. I am also very determined and have an overthinking mind, which has caused me a lot of pain. Once I realised in order to live a better life, I must use my thoughts as a gift and not a weapon, I became stronger and very clear. I understood that I must be responsible and when I am not responsible things go wrong. A day born 6, always has money lessons, which meant I had to be responsible and pay my bills on time and when I didn’t my life felt chaotic, all of these self-made problems took time and energy and made me feel very tired and hurt my self-worth.

My early life was full of self-made problems, and I suffered enormously which held me back from enjoying life. Once I understood how I needed order, my life was smoother and I loved it and I still need order today as an organised home life allows me to focus on other things.

I am a 4th generation mystic and I read the emotions of others which also helped me live a better life, as I always saw when to pull back and when to show up. Numerology is my power tool and this is a skill, you can also learn. 

I am who I am today because of this amazing science of understanding. I am also a 5 Soul which means that I need freedom, so when I made decisions that hindered having order, it also restricted my freedom. When my life was filled with chaos, made created by me, this hindered me from feeling free and when a 5 feels trapped, they shut down and stop, and then nothing gets done. In order for me to feel free, I had to be responsible and then the freedom allowed me to achieve so much more. Good decisions combined with my determination became a winning trait for me and one I continue to embrace today. 

Only when you love yourself, can you love others.

It takes love to allow someone to be who they truly are with you. It takes trust on both parts, for this love to truly align and only then can it grow in truth.

I write from an emotional perspective, why?  Because we are emotional. 

When you understand life from an emotional perspective, it empowers you to live a fuller life and makes understanding and getting what you want from life much easier. When you truly know who you are and what your best and worst characteristics are, then you can make better and more empowering decisions and have deeper loving relationships. When you are connected emotionally then life is more rewarding and more joyful.

Those born on the 1, 10, 19, 28

They are not emotional and rarely like sitting down for a heart-to-heart, particularly in the early days of the relationship. Trust needs to build, but once it does, they are good communicators and can be very supportive.

Never give a 1 an ultimatum as, sadly, you will lose. It is best to be respectful and work through the issues slowly. 

They can seem inflexible but this is usually because they are being told what to do.  Take a step back and let them make their own decisions as then they could meet you halfway. 

Standing still, though boring, is familiar becomes resistance and you can know resistance very well, you have sipped coffee together regularly and know the comfort of the status quo – but the status quo is often not satisfying.

When you’re being challenged and want something but have no clarity of what this is or how to get it, this is often when something significant shows up in your life and changes you forever. When you’re not listening, this can be a negative life changer but a changer all the same and when you are ready for a more meaningful and authentic existence, it does show up to meet you.

You are here to learn to be diplomatic, patient and tolerant.
When you love and believe in yourself and your ideas then do things for yourself by using your energetic ability and strong mental will power, you truly embrace your purpose.

To embrace your creative individuality and be responsible for what you create is to love life.
You are here to stand in your power and follow through with inspirational and unique ideas to stand out from the crowd and not shy away from your greatness.

Family lesson - Soul

They must learn to include, not exclude.

The 1 is meant to share and communicate how they feel and what they want. Instead, they often stand back as they do not like confrontation. When they are creative in their approach, creating a home that reflects and makes others feel good, they live at their best. They are often not concerned with money as money is a resource, not a focus. They love to talk one on one rather than in a group and they are not followers and can have unusual features in the home and different views on life.

They must be mindful not to be too strict on their children and must give a reason for why as then those around them can feel a part of the connection rather than separate. They are hard workers and can teach others wonderful skills and as they have great insights into life and creativity.

Never give a 1 an ultimatum as, sadly, you will lose. It is best to be respectful and work through the issues slowly. 

Those born on the 2,11,20 and 29

You are one of the most extremes of all the vibrations and one of the most misunderstood. You have inner and outer strength and the ability to push through hardships that often come out of nowhere.

You are here to learn to trust everything! But first and foremost you must trust yourself as to trust yourself is to support yourself.

Firstly you must learn to trust yourself and your instincts, trust how you feel and trust that you know what you want. Trust is the underlying lesson, bringing strong emotions that are often not shared with just anyone. You share your deepest self with only those you trust and if they betray you, you can walk away but you always walk away emotionally first and then you shut down and you have the ability to close the door.

You are a gentle and sensitive soul and you have the inner depth and strength of a lion.
You have a love of animals and nature and when you live alongside nature you live at your best.
You are here to bring harmony and balance to the lives of others, as you are the peacemakers and need harmony within and around you to live an inspired life.

You are extreme in everything you do and feel and often there is no middle ground for you to rest.

You love when people are healed and released from pain and you are here to bring the world back into harmony, beauty and balance by sharing from the heart.

You must embrace your independence and trust your instincts while learning to be diplomatic and cooperative with others to live a full life.

Family Lesson - Soul

They can be loyal to a fault. They needed to be needed and must see that those they love and work with are loyal to them. They are here to learn diplomacy as they can be very direct and harsh in what they say. Their beliefs can also become and issue if they feel judged and can judge harshly also. Never give a 2 an ultimatum as they are one number that can walk away from family and their lesson is to learn to hear and see others’ points of view and stay the distance. They can hold pain within them for their entire lives which means they can see others’ pain and will fight for those who cannot fight for themselves. 

They do not like conflict however can cause it or attract it, especially males in their teens and early 20s. They will also fight for those they love or what they believe in, no matter the consequences.

They can be the most incredible family members when they are understood and will be there through thick and thin.

Those born on the 3,12,21 and 30

You are here to overcome self-doubt and to learn to communicate well in particular with the opposite sex. You must speak the truth and learn to face and embrace your emotional self in a balanced way. When you speak the truth, you connect strongly to your intuitive purpose and this way to attain balance and harmony in your life. 

Happiness is your goal, your supreme goal!
 You have a natural clairvoyant ability and your connection to spirit is to help you through emotional drama and turmoil, but you must use it or you can fumble around in the dark.
 You must plan to be successful in life, as you have been promised success and support when you do so. Without a plan you risk treading water, standing still and eventually going backwards. 

Firstly let’s get something clear...YOU WORRY! You are here to learn that worry is a waste and how to use your mindset to your advantage.
 You have been promised success in what you choose to focus on or excel at ... don’t waste this as this is an amazing spiritual right. - These are what you have been promised by spirit to help support your 

life now. You can claim these in times of challenge or to define and enhance your unique abilities when you feel low in confidence. 

You can be one of the most balanced of all the numbers and have the drive to succeed in life, on every level. As long as you remain open and balanced and your desire is happiness backed with integrity, then you will live a full and happy life. 

If stress and worry take over this can be destructive to the mind, which means you will lose focus and become out of touch with reality. To live a well-balanced life will mean you feel happy within but mostly satisfied and feel in control of your mind. 

Mind control is an essential key to every aspect of you and you must seek ways to find solutions to a positive one. 

Family Lesson and Soul

They have a direct lesson for the women in their lives, grandmothers, mothers and sisters. They can be seen as someone who will save those around them but it may be them that needs saving. Money represents safety and will give their all to those they love or control money too hard and create a lot of conflicts.

They can also be distant even when they are in the same room, they may as well be in another and this is often due to stress in their lives and money stress can be the worst. They can be workaholics and not present when things need to be done in the home, it is better to find a way to work with this rather than battle as the middle ground is the 3’s best friend. They are hopeless when it comes to love and sex which can become the best trait or the worst.

Communication is their lesson and focusing on what they promise is where conflict can arise from. They are loveable and loathed and obligation can become a bind that kills their creativity and love.

Those born on the 4, 13, 22 and 31

You move to a different beat than most and your inner perspective always views a wider, more accomplished angle. For you, life is about gathering information and building a big picture gallery to then look at life from a practical moving perspective. 

You are dependable and a natural leader, with an amazing ability at seeing potential and or issues that can occur. You have an immense drive and ability to get the job done and you are not afraid of hard work and times to your personal detriment. 

You are never afraid of hard work but you must always understand why you do what you do and you must learn to be flexible.
 Your destination is essential for inner satisfaction and without a clear one; you can find yourself at a loss. 

You are a dedicated hard worker that looks at life from a different angle than all others. Being one of the most dependable numbers means people can rely on you and take your dedication seriously. 

When you commit to something you follow it through and have drive like no other. When you believe in something or work at something you’re passionate about, then the gratification is so much more intense. To dedicate yourself to an idea, cause or project and push to make it happen will always be a super reward for you. 

Family Lesson and Soul

They are here to lead and provide for others, they may not be the most emotional of beings but they will support and deliver. Due to their abilities, they can be very successful and drive those around to be at the same level and when these connections are not, they can be very judgmental even from a silent standpoint. They can create wealth when focused but not see others around them struggling as they felt to read the signs. They can leave wealth but often not give wealth as they see it as a personal triumph to build and there must do the same, if they can do it then others can too.

They can be good for advice and really harsh on their approach unless pushed. They are here to lead and inspire and when they are mindful they can be an incredible family member and leader, they are true visionaries when it comes to showing people how to do it for themselves rather than have everything done for them. 

Those born on the 5, 14 and 23

You are an overthinker and this needs to be controlled – to have freedom of the mind is to have the most freedom of all. For you freedom is everything, to live a life full of adventure and always on the move or to have something of interest in your sights is a life you will love. To explore and try new things while being wise with your freedom is to live with purpose.
 When you hit hard times it is natural to look outside yourself for help but you must always keep in mind that you are here to save yourself. The reason this is so important is, you are a natural leader with immense ability and your connection to spirit is strong. Always ask for help when you need it but also support yourself while you look for signposts for the freedom your soul needs and step out and grab it. 

For you to inspire others is to live a full life, to think outside the box and enjoy your life is apart of your soul purpose. 

Your strive for perfection is how you look and manage your life as you need order to remain free. Restriction from anyone or anything that limits you, reducing passion and growth, needs to be eliminated as to feel proud of who you are and what you have accomplished will feed your soul. 

Never underestimate the ability to save yourself and live the life you visualise for yourself. The only limits you have are the ones you place on yourself. 

You are a freedom-loving adventurer and you are always at your best when you are on the move. You really enjoy visiting and experiencing new places and people, trying new things and experiencing new thrills. 

Family Lesson and Soul

The 5 can change a room's energy at any time, they can turn the dullest party into something great and vice versa. They can be harder to live with as they can be hard to read but they read others very well and can turn things around so fast. They are strong but often come across as weak and needy but this is a rouge, they are masterful and powerful, strong and loveable and when they have a family of their own, they are wonderful mothers and fathers. When no one listens, they yell to get heard and often have strong children as the lessons link on and this can create pain. When they hurt they hurt beyond the body, deep into the soul. 

They like a home to look and feel right and when it doesn’t often through their own hand it can immobilise them, this can be turned around fast if the help is there and they will be ever grateful. They are master manipulators due to reading others so well.

Those born on the 6, 15, and 24

Kick fear to the curb!
 The secret?
 Don’t try to become fearless, which is simply denial. 

Instead, face up to your fears and work through them piece by piece. 

Your mind is the doorway to everything you need – when you are in control of your mind and can process then you can do anything. Your inner record – These are when your thoughts are going over the same ground over and over which limits your decision making or ability to move. You must be in control of your own mind as this is the only way to improve outcomes or change what no longer serves you. 

Remember it is never too late to start living a life full of passion and satisfaction. Choose to become who you believe you can be. 

THE NO 6 – Born on the 6, 15 and 24 Plus Master Number 33 Soul/Life-path 

Summary
 Relationships are your number one priority as you are a natural parent, caregiver and romantic.
 For you to be a responsible caregiver is living at your best and part of your soul purpose. To nurture yourself, your family, your community and the world is to live from the heart with true vision for humanity. To use your nurturing ability to help and support others, offering clear and concise advice to others fills your soul and strengthens your purpose. 

You are strong and naturally intuitive and your spiritual world is just as important as your physical one. 

You are one of the most dependable vibrations of all but you must remember to look after you first. 

You are a warrior and this is why your core strength is deep. It is like the roots of a tree and why your passion for life runs so deep. 

Whatever you chose to do, you must do with enthusiasm and to the best of your ability. Your passion and drive means you can become the best, an authority in a chosen subject or field. 

Again you can fight this with your mind holding you captive, always reinforcing your limitations, reminding yourself that you’re not good enough or you do not have enough knowledge. You are here to overcome these binds and excel in your chosen field.
 You must learn to support yourself, your dreams and your  needs by remaining balanced. 

Family Lesson and Soul

They are here to be responsible to others and to show love to those they are linked with or bring into this world. They can hold and hide pain well and when they feel stress they can shut down and forget to communicate or ask for help. They are driven and can earn a lot of money but must be responsible for using it and sharing it. They will give away their last dollar and those that receive it will be none the wiser, they will often make sure others have what they need before their own needs and at times to their detriment. They must find balance and learn to say no when they need space and support themselves.

They must have and be able to maintain balance as this is when they shine and lead from the front. They are analytical and must understand what they sign and agree to. If they sweep anything under the carpet, it will bite them back which can become a reoccurring theme.

Those born on the 7, 16 and 25

Your purpose is to build a vision for life and live life like you mean it.
 Your potential is only limited by your belief and vision of what you feel you are entitled to and once you understand this, you can build something powerful.
 You have immense potential and if you are not pushing your limits and growing, you’re not living the life you’re meant to live. Your drive and ability allow you to achieve personally and professionally and the outcome is only limited by how big your vision is and how far you can see ahead. 

You must see your future path in front of you, as when you combine vision and intention together, this is a winning formula. 

You are meant to live a life with passion and purpose and you must take clear and decisive action to achieve this. The opposition of this means you can struggle when making decisions and waste life and appear to stand still, then begin to punish yourself while hooking into limitations and truly holding yourself back. You must be real and face reality in order to truly achieve! 

Throughout life you can build loving relationships that support your truth, passion and vision. This will help you to then share your vision and inspire others throughout life. You must watch the tendency to hide as you get older and you need to remember that sharing is not only inspiring to others but it also inspires you as aspiration and inspiration inspires freedom. 

To acknowledge your inner vision, to live in an authentic way connected to your inner and spiritual belief systems will build a grounded and fulfilling life. 

You are here to contemplate life, to seek the truth and uncover the mysteries of the universe to find your spiritual truth. 

Family Lesson and Soul

They are here to love and be loved. They liked to be the central point of a family as long as they don’t have to do everything. they will do their fair share but once they feel taken for granted, the cracks will begin to show and this can create pain and again their sleep is affected. They love, they love to the core and admire those they align with, they often align with those that are movers and creators too which is why love and work partnerships can be so rewarding or destructive.

Money is not the lesson of a 7 but they love shiny things and toys and will often replace something that is already good enough

Those born on the 8, 16 and 26

You are here to find balance in everything you do; as to live and love without balance could mean life becomes a struggle. You are a natural leader and will be drawn to positions of authority or even self- employment, as you need to be your own person, making your own decisions. 

For you to live life the best way you can, you need to take action and not just think about it.
 Action is key!
 You are one of the world’s problem solvers and when you combine your intellectual and creative vision, together, this can be a winning formula to enjoy life and to inspire others. 

You are known as "the child of fate". You are of strong mind and body but most of all you are of strong spirit. In life you can expect the unexpected and challenges to be intense, but you have been given immense strength to cope and the mind to turn anything around, especially when you look at life from outside the box. 

Your life is governed by cause and effect and most of life comes in 3-year cycles. You have the ability to create immense wealth as long as you do everything with thought and integrity. You need to live fast and high and when your internal power is strong, then your creative worlds open which is when you can have the most impact on life. 

Family lesson and Soul

You are known as "the child of fate”. You learn from the unexpected and you take others along for the ride, which is not always a pleasure for those that love you. This is a karmic trait that can be hard for those that live with you to endure as so often, you can’t see what you bring to the table. When things are good, they are great however when things turn bad you may find it very difficult to cope with. Your inner world is as big as your outer one and 

Those born on the 9, 18 and 27

You are a broad minded, idealistic and compassionate soul who needs confirmation from those around you about your daily life.
 You can be admired for your strength and your unique point of difference, as you see the world from a unique perspective. You are here to inspire others from a humanitarian perspective, as you are a truth seeker. 

You are compassionate and you like to fight for those who can’t fight for themselves - you are especially sympathetic and kind to those that are living through challenge or pain. If it is you living through pain, you will work hard to move where you desire to be, no matter how hard or long it takes. 

You have great courage and a strong connection to the divine allowing you to develop your intuitive ability to become something spectacular.
 You can sacrifise yourself for others or a cause and loose touch with you’re BIG WHY and at times limit your own wellbeing by not being honest with yourself. Once you see the truth, you will move to realign and regain your strength. 

You are here to excel and live a life full of colour and magic and you can inspire others to be great. You are a true visionary and a lover of the arts and often literature. Your bohemian passion feeds your soul and you can excel in the public eye, through speaking, design, academia or the arts. 

You are here to inspire and nurture others from a humanitarian perspective. You are extremely capable and always make an excellent boss or leader as you always look at how you can make others feel good and excel in what they are doing. Your standards are high and you can push yourself to reach perfection, I now remind you that perfection is unobtainable and you must always remember to find and maintain balance.